Relationships n the distance within


Relationships and the distance within….
We don’t live alone..everyone has shared their lives with someone! We get close, we share, we care, we fight….we wonder why things changed…….
The CLOSER we are, the FARTHER we get…do we really KNOW people with whom we spend our typical EVERYDAY?
I used to wonder how people who see each other everyday in school haven’t ever talked to each other n the first time, they ever talked was on Fb, or myspace, or other social networking websites….
But true, that is life….the bigger classes you go into…(Count 150 classmates….n you would hardly know 30-40)
Forget those we don’t even talk to…..what about those that we hang around with,….every break, we go n smile, talk a bit about our professors, classes, etc….but do we REALLY know them? Do we know what they like, what they dislike….?
People tend to know more about likes, dislikes, good moments, and bad and to a great depth about the life of their net friends, probably because it’s easier to share things to someone you don’t even know…
Not many people would prefer talking face-to-face…People texting eachother when they are just 5 feet away is not uncommon….I mean its fun sometimes, but there’s an awkwardness that makes us do this, isn’t it? So, where are we heading at? This is the biggest irony of today..we know more about the far, n sometimes know just nothing about people so close to you…..There’s an inherent distance within relationships between people.
“When someone sees the same people every day, they become a part of that person's life. And then they want the person to change. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.” 
― Paulo CoelhoThe Alchemist
It is so so difficult to maintain a relationship with just anyone.More often than not we do not communicate….whatever hurts us is seldom said, which keeps on building a bridge that keeps on separating us from the other person.
In most close relationships, we feel this is gonna last forever, the best of friends, couples etc, but everything changes….circumstances change…the way people think changes….priorities change….and it becomes difficult to accept…and at one point you realise, that the reasons for which you had ever admired or respected the other, to be a friend have all changed to the contrary….that is when you prefer giving up as it gives you more torment to be with the absolute opposite person than not.


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